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We are a community designed to support, uplift, and empower foreign-born spouses of military service members. Our mission is to provide a safe space where you can connect with others who share similar experiences, access essential resources, and build a life of stability and purpose, no matter where the military takes you.

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The frustration of navigating this new reality

Lydiah Owiti-Otienoh’s journey began in Kenya, driven by a passion for human rights and social justice. “I always knew I wanted to fight for those who couldn’t fight for themselves,” she recalls. After earning a law degree, life as a military spouse brought unexpected challenges when her qualifications weren’t recognized in the U.S. “My law degree was essentially ‘useless’ here,” she shared, detailing her struggle to find employment due to foreign degrees and experience. Frequent relocations and inconsistent licensing requirements further complicated her career goals.

The transition to military life was daunting, as she faced cultural differences, complex systems, and a lack of support. Yet, after her husband’s retirement, Lydiah found new purpose advocating for foreign-born military spouses. In 2022, during her fellowship with Blue Star Families, she conducted research on the challenges facing this community, deepening her commitment to the cause.

Lydiah’s advocacy has since grown, with her work featured on podcasts and publications like Today.com, and through her involvement with organizations like Hiring Our Heroes. Her efforts push for systemic changes to better support foreign-born military spouses. Through the Foreign Born Military Spouse Network, she now builds a community of support, ensuring others don’t face the same barriers. Guided by Martin Luther King Jr.’s words—”Life’s most persistent and urgent question is: What are you doing for others?”—Lydiah’s story is one of resilience and advocacy.

Mission Statement

Empowering foreign-born military spouses to thrive in every aspect of life.

The Foreign Born Military Spouse Network is dedicated to empowering foreign-born military spouses by providing resources, support, and a vibrant community. We strive to facilitate their successful integration into the military and broader society, while promoting personal and professional growth through advocacy, education, and networking opportunities.

Vision Statement

Achieving full integration and success for foreign-born military spouses.

Our vision is to create an inclusive, supportive environment where every foreign-born military spouse can thrive, fully integrated into the military and civilian communities and equipped to achieve their personal and professional aspirations. We aim to bridge cultural gaps and foster resilience among military families worldwide.

Core Values

Inclusivity

We embrace diversity and actively work to create an inclusive environment where all foreign-born military spouses feel welcomed, valued, and supported.

Empowerment

We believe in empowering our members with the knowledge, resources, and connections they need to navigate military life and achieve their full potential.

Resilience

We are committed to fostering resilience in our community, helping members adapt and thrive amidst the unique challenges of military life.

Community

We build strong, supportive communities that offer a sense of belonging, connection, and mutual support.

Advocacy

We advocate for the needs and rights of foreign-born military spouses, striving to amplify their voices and ensure their contributions and needs are recognized.

Dedicated to Supporting Foreign-Born Military Spouses

Our team is made up of passionate volunteers who understand the unique challenges of military life. Many of us are foreign-born military spouses ourselves, and we are committed to helping you navigate your journey with confidence, no matter where the military takes you.
Lydiah Owiti-Otienoh

Team Lead

Lydiah Owiti-Otienoh

Salwa Malbrook Caldwell

Team

Salwa Malbrook Caldwell

Gisselle Hassan Curnutt

Team

Gisselle Hassan Curnutt

Mapela Motchabi Custodio

Team

Mapela Motchabi Custodio

Erika Nasah

Team

Erika Nasah