Mental Health is real

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Managing Stress and Anxiety as a Military Spouse, incorporating humor and more specific resources:

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Blog 1: Managing Stress and Anxiety as a Military Spouse (Without Losing Your Sanity!)

So, your spouse joined the military, and now you’re living the glamorous life of… juggling deployments, new zip codes every few years, and the constant stress of *What’s next?!*. Welcome to the wild ride of military spouse life! But hey, stress and anxiety don’t have to take over your world. Here’s how you can take a breather (literally) and find ways to manage the chaos, one stress ball at a time.

Understanding Stress and Anxiety

Before we dive in, let’s be real—stress is basically part of the military spouse job description. Whether it’s worrying about your spouse’s safety or wondering if that new base has a decent coffee shop (important stuff!), stress is always knocking. But when stress sticks around too long, it can turn into anxiety, which is a whole different beast.

Common culprits of stress for military spouses:

• • Deployment Blues: Endless worry about your spouse on deployment.

• • Relocation Headaches: New homes, new schools, new people (and no idea where to find the good takeout).

• • Loneliness: Trying to make friends in yet another new town can be a drag.

• • Uncertainty: Who needs a crystal ball when military life keeps you guessing about everything?

Now, let’s chat about what you can do to keep your cool when things start to feel overwhelming. Practical Ways to Manage Stress

1. 1. Build Your Village (Because You Can’t Do This Alone)
      
      • • Military life is tough, but you don’t have to go it solo. Whether it’s a coffee date with fellow spouses or joining online support groups, finding your people makes a world of difference.

Bonus points if they’ve survived a PCS (Permanent Change of Station) move without losing any boxes!

Resources:

• • [Military Spouse Advocacy Network](https://www.militaryspouseadvocacynetwork.org/): Peer-to-peer mentorship programs for new spouses.

• • [USO Military Spouse

Networking](https://www.uso.org/programs/military-spouse-networking): Meet other spouses and build connections through networking events.

• • [SpouseLink](https://www.spouselink.org/): A community for military spouses to connect, share, and support one another.

2. 2. Master the Art of Self-Care (No, It’s Not Selfish)
      
      • • Taking care of yourself is essential. Whether it’s taking a bubble bath that lasts until your fingers wrinkle or sneaking in a 10-minute meditation session while the kids are napping, you deserve a break. Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s survival.

Resources:

• • [Headspace for Military](https://www.headspace.com/military): Free mindfulness and meditation app for military families.

• • [TRICARE’s Wellness Program](https://www.tricare.mil/HealthWellness): Offers a range of programs to support mental and physical well-being.

3. 3. Keep in Touch with Your People (Technology Is Your Best Friend)
      
      • • Missing family back home? Schedule regular video calls or WhatsApp chats. Staying connected to your roots can help you feel grounded when everything around you feels out of control.

Resources:

• • [Operation Homefront](https://www.operationhomefront.org): Provides assistance to military families, including communication support.

• • [WhatsApp](https://www.whatsapp.com/): Free international messaging and video calls to stay connected with family and friends.

4. 4. Know When to Get Professional Help (No Shame in That Game)
      
      • • If you’re feeling like stress and anxiety are taking over, don’t be afraid to talk to someone. Mental health professionals get it, and there are plenty of military-friendly resources to guide you through.

Resources:

• • [Military OneSource

Counseling](https://www.militaryonesource.mil/confidential-help/non-medical-counseling/): Free, confidential counseling for military families.

• • [TRICARE Mental Health](https://www.tricare.mil/CoveredServices/Mental/): Covers counseling and mental health services for military spouses.

• • [Give an Hour](https://giveanhour.org): Provides free mental health services to military families.

5. 5. Get a Routine (Even if the Military Has Other Plans)
      
      • • With the unpredictability of military life, routines might seem impossible, but having a few daily rituals can make life feel a little less like a whirlwind. Whether it’s a morning workout, a cup of tea in silence, or a weekly Zoom date with friends, find something that grounds you.

Resources:

• • [Military OneSource Fitness

Program](https://www.militaryonesource.mil/confidential-help/fitness/): Free resources to help military spouses stay active.

• • [Fit On](https://fitonapp.com): A free app with workouts you can do at home (great for a military spouse on the move).

6. 6. Laugh It Off (Seriously, It Helps)
      
      • • When all else fails, laugh at the chaos. Whether it’s because you misplaced your keys again or because the movers somehow lost the one box that had all the important stuff (you know the one), humor can lighten the load.

Resources:

• • [MilSpouseFest](https://milspousefest.com/): Events and community for military spouses, with a focus on fun and laughter.

• • [Dear MilFamily Podcast](https://dearmilfamily.com/): A humorous podcast about the ups and downs of military family life.

Creating a Routine That Works for You

Sure, military life means plans will change at the last minute (again). But creating a routine, no matter how small, can help create a sense of control. Whether it’s scheduling time for a weekly date with your favorite Netflix show or setting up a daily walk with your dog, small routines can bring some peace into the chaos.

Bonus Tip: Connect with Other Foreign-Born Military Spouses

Being a foreign-born military spouse adds a whole new layer of challenges, but guess what? You’re not alone! Many spouses are in the same boat and can offer support, advice, and even a few laughs when you need it most.

Resources:

• • [InDependent](https://in-dependent.org/): A community supporting military spouses’ health and wellness.

• • [Foreign-Born Military Spouses Network (Facebook)](https://www.facebook.com/groups/ForeignBornMilitarySpouses): Join the conversation with other foreign-born spouses for support and tips.

• • [Military Spouse Wellness Summit](https://www.militaryspousewellnesssummit.com/): An annual virtual event focused on mental health and wellness for military spouses.

Conclusion

Military life is no joke—but that doesn’t mean you can’t laugh (or cry) your way through it. Stress and anxiety are part of the package, but they don’t have to run the show. With the right support, a dash of humor, and some solid resources, you’ve got this. And remember, if you feel like it’s all a bit too much—don’t hesitate to reach out for help. The military community has your back, and you’re stronger than you think.

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